You possibly figured out I love sailing, it is where I am happy and at peace, inspired and in command of my destiny. I am blessed, I love Sailing and Life Coaching equally. Why is that important for all of us to have those feelings? We all have a destiny, something we have done or will do with passion and belief, belief in the outcome and belief in ourselves. This was what I learnt from my previous generations, My Grandfather through stories from Mom, from my Grandmother “Nanny” and my Father and my amazing Mother, and family.
I learnt tolerance and forgiveness from my Father, he never could understand teenagers and without his abuse I would never have taken up sailing, can’t hear him from the lakes edge to the boat, and I would have missed over 50 years of my beloved sport. I have set aside what does not serve me to be able and become who I am, as described by Mom, “a thoroughly good and decent man”, a Certified Life Coach and World Class Sailor & registered Captain.
Retirement is a time of change, we have various times in our lives the opportunity to change and transform to the best in the world, in any field or any circumstance. We are all capable of so much, and we can do is with action, conscience change and recognition of our victories and exceptional heart and spirit.
I love most sports, and I am a participant more than a spectator. I love seeing people leave behind their troubles and seeing themselves as who they are at their deepest self, honorable people, finding their spirit long ago suppressed, no one is ever broken, beaten and bruised yes, but, the spirit is resolute and will inspire us when we are ready. “I Can” is real.
Now – 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD NOT BE HERE
1/ I can NOT change your current stress and life for you, if you are not 100% on board ready to change your state.
This includes taking the time to do a simple exercise each day. If you are so time poor you have no time to fix the fact you are time poor … you can see this downward spiral.
2/ I will never be able to make decisions for you. Life is made up of great questions and decisions. I will ask lots of questions and challenge your answers, at the end of the day, it is your life and your decision .. so if you want to outsource all responsibility for your success to me … you should not proceed.
3/ Can we just get this do one session? No, there is no trying or testing, all in and massive change is the goal!
4/ Your a Drug addict or Alcoholic (There are people who specialize in this, just not me)
5/ Is it $20 a session, No.
Answer is, lets not waste our time… you will have layers of the past holding your stress, that have built up over many years. I am here for your sustainable transformation and deep and lasting change.
I will let you do the math on what it will cost to accept no changes, your time, your relationships and your current and future wealth. I have helped clients in so many ways including:
1/ A client would turn up at the airport, and never knew if they could get on the plane, missing trips between cities and around the world. What is the emotional cost of letting the family down, let alone the huge financial impact. They worked with Psychiatrists for 20 years and could not crack the code. Working with me, they were able to get on the plane every-time. Still some nerves going to the airport, but jumping on that plane, wow!
2/ A young woman in distress. Close on divorce with a young family I was able to steer her in the right direction. Apart from the family upheaval, selling the home, how many Thousands of Dollars were saved by this turn around. The young woman went on to save the relationship, improve her relationship with her child and have another child as well as an amazing career.
I have no idea what your current situation is costing you, I can tell you that you are unlikely to know the extent to which you can grow, the increase in all areas of your life, relationships you value, the value you put on money, time, stress ..
I have had awesome success with clients some times in just one session. This is not about a feel good session, although that is a benefit. It is about a new life born within. You and I will seek outcomes and changes that will exceed expectations over time.
How do you know this will work for you?
So, if you are still interested, what is available and what stresses can be dealt with. The answer is what ever is presenting in your life, we will deal with it.
- Relationships with Parents – this is huge as many people don’t get on and create a trusting bond early, establish your aging parents are always adults, so they never become your kids, even if you are tempted to think that way
- Past trauma clouding your present and future – we identify and work through
- Acceptance of being put down, and you know this is not right – where did this start, change the narrative.
- Hording – Isn’t this the most magical transformation! The home had a fire, and was full to the brim, I mean 7′ tall piles of newspapers and stuff right throughout the home. There had been several attempts to work with the owner to get the home cleared out by family members, each time the 40′ skip bins would turn up, some junk would make it in to the bin, but predominantly the bins would be sent away empty. The house had a fire and was under threat of being demolished under Washington DC ordinances, if this was not resolved. Can you see a $500,000 difference in the property or more? As you can see, we resolved the issue, in doing so healed a family relationship and created wealth for the family.
All great leaders have Coaches, Mentors, advisers, and support- this is my role.
# Each session is closed off at the end, meaning we don’t open up an issue and leave it as an anxious spot in your mind. So, to achieve this, there is a tight structure of each session that is held too as much as possible.
# Do we talk for hours on end about the each item, re-living every moment… hell NO!
…. this is actually a great time to expand.
We don’t aim to remove memories … although I have had people who once a moment is dealt with .. that’s it, not talking about it again .. we look to identify the pain points and lessen the impact of those thoughts, and high light the moments in time you were happier .. often it is finding the positive moments that were great at the time because we can forget those, and be painting a memory worse than it needs to be.
Note: You are a unique soul and you have all your answers inside you. Should you chose to work with me, you will discover how much you already know, how you know your purpose and your dreams, and you will work through “Clearing the fog” of other people’s expectations. You’ll feel the stress leave your body as you realize this is true. You’ll discover your own inner strength and power is far stronger and more enlightening than anyone else’s ideas for you, because the only person in this world who knows everything about you, is you. You are magnificent.”